When Success Starts Working Against You.

Private mentorship for accomplished leaders, founders and professionals ready to transform the patterns that shape how they think, decide and lead.

THE MOMENT OF CHOICE

Leadership is not only defined by what happens. It is defined by the moment between what happens and how you choose to respond. That moment is where awareness creates choice. And choice is where transformation begins.

Milagros Paredes Mattos

Private Mentor & Thinking Partner 

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Who This Work Is For

This Work Is For Acomplished Leaders Ready to Evolve How They Operate

You’ve built a successful career through capability, commitment and high standards.

But lately you’ve begun to notice that the way you’ve always operated is asking more of you than it used to.

You’ve become the person everyone depends on. You carry responsibility not only for your own performance, but often for the success of those around you.

Decisions take more energy. Your mind rarely switches off. You know you’re capable of more—but not by working harder.

Deep down, you sense your next level of leadership requires a different way of operating.

You may recognise yourself if you:

  • Carry responsibility for other people’s outcomes as much as your own, often taking on more than your role truly requires.
  • Spend more time thinking about important decisions than you used to, yet often feel less certain than you expect.
  • Step in to solve problems or take work back, even when you know it isn’t the best use of your leadership.
  • Find it difficult to switch off, leaving little space for yourself, your relationships or the things that recharge you.
  • Recognise that the qualities that made you successful—commitment, responsibility, independence and high standards—may now be limiting your clarity, leadership and wellbeing.
  • Know your next stage of growth won’t come from working harder, but from evolving how you think, decide and lead.

This isn’t traditional executive coaching for leaders looking for more tools.

It’s transformational mentorship for leaders who are ready to understand—and evolve—the patterns shaping how they think, decide, lead and perform.

The next level is rarely achieved by doing more

Why This Work Works

The Work Beneath Leadership Transformation

Every leader has an internal operating system.

It shapes the way you interpret situations, make decisions, respond under pressure and lead others. Within that system are recurring patterns that influence your behaviour—often without you being fully aware of them.

Many of these patterns once served you well.

They helped you build success through capability, commitment and high standards.

But over time, strengths can quietly become limitations.

Determination becomes over-functioning.
High standards become perfectionism.
Responsibility becomes carrying too much.
Self-reliance becomes isolation.

Most leadership development focuses on changing visible behaviours.

My work begins one level deeper.

It helps leaders understand the patterns beneath their behaviour, why those patterns developed, and how to evolve the way they operate.

Because at a certain level of leadership, growth is no longer about learning more.

It’s about seeing yourself more clearly.

Recognising what no longer serves you.

And consciously choosing how you want to think, decide and lead.

Together, we uncover the patterns shaping your leadership and create the awareness and choice needed for a more intentional, sustainable and authentic way of operating.

What Becomes Possible

When leaders transform the patterns shaping how they think, decide and lead, new possibilities emerge:

 

  • Clearer thinking when the pressure is highest
  • Greater clarity and confidence when navigating complex decisions and conversations 
  • Less overthinking and more purposeful action
  • Executive presence that feels grounded and authentic rather than performed
  • Healthier boundaries without losing commitment or care
  • Greater trust, delegation and collaboration with others 
  • Greater awareness of the patterns shaping their choices, reactions and leadership
  • A way of leading that feels more natural, sustainable and aligned

This work isn’t about becoming someone different.

It’s about becoming less driven by automatic patterns—and more intentional in how you think, decide and lead.

Because leadership changes when the way you operate aligns with the leader you are becoming.

Ready to understand what’s shaping your leadership?

Partnerships

Credentials

Working with Mila during this change has been one of the most grounding, insightful, and developmental experiences of my journey.

From our very first introductory conversation, Mila created structure, clarity, and intentionality around the process. She approached my transition holistically, helping me navigate not only career positioning and professional growth, but also purpose, identity, values, mindset, awareness, and the internal shifts required to step confidently into this new chapter. She helped me consolidate years of international experience while translating it meaningfully into a European context, without losing the essence of who I am and the value I bring. Together, we explored strengths, competencies, belief systems, blind spots, emotional intelligence, performance habits, and the patterns that shape how we show up in the workplace and in life and much more.

What I appreciated most was her balance of challenge and care. Her depth of experience comes through strongly, and she has an exceptional ability to connect the dots in a way that creates real momentum and clarity and self-discovering for me.

I leave this experience feeling more grounded, more self aware, more intentional, and better equipped to lead, contribute, and grow through change.

I would highly recommend Mila to any professional navigating transition, relocation, leadership growth, career change, or personal transformation. Especially in moments where life requires you to evolve beyond who you have previously been.

Thank you, Mila, for your guidance, challenge, wisdom, and belief in what is possible.

Itumeleng Mokhele

Itumeleng Mokhele

Strategic Change & Transformation Consultant

“Sometimes you come across as if you are not fully convinced of your own position and abilities. This may be perceived (not saying I do) as insecure.”

This was feedback I received back in 2023, shortly after I moved from a country role into a regional one. I had big shoes to fill (and, to be honest, at the time I was still checking whether they actually fit), the feedback struck a chord because I knew there was truth in it.

Believing that investing in yourself usually pays the best interest, I decided to work with Milagros in a Personal Leadership Development Coaching trajectory — and I’m really glad I did.

Since then, things have felt different in practice: from facilitating sessions with senior leaders to building and leading a team. The feedback I receive these days is that my leadership feels calm, supportive and effective, sometimes summed up as “gentle leadership”.

The biggest change, however, has been internal. Over the past year, I’ve built the inner calm and confidence needed to show up as a more strategic and impactful leader. Milagros helped me identify and rewire old internal patterns that were subtly holding me back. Her combination of powerful questioning, reframing, and guided visualizations is both deep and practical. Several of the tools and phrases we worked with have become part of my daily leadership practice — and they truly make a difference.

We had our final session in December, and I want to express my deep gratitude and sincerely recommend working with Milagros. I know I’ll return to continue my development journey one day. For now, I feel equipped to lean into what I’ve learned and focus my energy where it creates the most impact — for my team, my role, and beyond.

Kateryna Hobeanu

Kateryna Hobeanu

Regional Head of Medical Strategy & Operations at Sanofi

After relocating to the Netherlands, I had the privilege of meeting Milagros, an incredible mentor who guided me in gaining a deeper understanding of myself.
She helped me identify my strengths and showed me how to leverage them effectively in order to thrive in a new, diverse environment.
I truly appreciated the attention to detail and the consistently personal touch that made each meeting feel meaningful and tailored.
I’m looking forward to collaborating again in the future!

Cătălin Hobeanu

Cătălin Hobeanu

Change & Demand Lead at NewCold

What I appreciated most about Milagros was her genuine support and encouragement throughout my relocation journey. She not only helped me understand the Dutch market and practical aspects of relocating but also provided a lot of reassurance during a challenging period. Thanks to her guidance, I felt much more confident starting my new life in the Netherlands

Dawid Chudala

Dawid Chudala

Master Data Management Specialist at Boehringer Ingelheim

After participating in several group sessions led by you, and after having some personal coaching sessions with you, I concluded that you make an impact. In just a few sessions you were able to help me gain some valuable insights into myself.

So, naturally, when the opportunity arose for additional personal coaching sessions with you, I did not hesitate and signed up immediately. I was not disappointed!

What I like about your style is that, on the one hand, you ask open questions to guide my thinking and allow me to discover insights myself — in that way helping me truly understand them and get to my ‘origin story’ — while on the other hand you offer pragmatic advice to address the challenges I run into due to what makes me tick.

These are seemingly small tips and tricks that are easy to pick up and monitor, yet have a huge impact on my daily life.

Thank you again for helping me grow faster than I could have on my own!

Anonymous by request

Senior Leader, Financial Services

Thank you for forging an environment of trust and safety in our homegroups and in our one-to-one sessions. You truly made an effort to understand and relate to each and every one of us who are quite different from one another in terms of personality and background, well done!

Anonymous by request

Senior Leader, Leadership Development Programme

Drie sessies met jou hebben me meer opgeleverd dan jaren therapie.

Anonymous by request

Senior Leader, Financial Services

I had an ad hoc coaching session with Milagros that was more than an eye opener. Within a mere 90 minutes she got to the roots of what was holding me back and gave me some insight into what I should be looking for in the next step in my career. I experienced her as highly professional with great empathy and focus. She helps you discover your own strengths and encourages you to leave your comfort zone to progress in your life and career. I highly recommend her.

Renee Dickson

Renee Dickson

CUSTOMER SUCCESS MANAGER, INFOR CLOUD APPLICATIONS (SaaS)

I moved to Amsterdam from NY, where I owned two businesses. I knew I wanted to get into the corporate world, but I wasn’t sure how to translate my talents into a recognizable role. For a year I was sending out my resume without hearing anything back. By the end of our second session, Milagros was able to narrow down my search into a field I hadn’t previously considered, one that properly fit my strengths. By our fourth session, I had already heard back from an employer and was getting ready for my second interview. Beyond her coaching talents, she has experience working in a corporate environment, which was a huge help in guiding our conversations. I’d highly recommend Milagros’ services. She’s bright, intuitive and really goes above and beyond for her clients.

Kimberly Herrera

Kimberly Herrera

Co-founder and Managing Director at Squint

I was connected to Mila when I first relocated to the Netherlands. She worked closely with me as a career & self-development coach and has had a really big impact. I am glad to recommend her. She was particularly skilled at empowering, equipping me with the tools & right mindset, helping me to integrate to local culture and nuances. It has been my privilege to cross paths with Mila.

Jane Tan

Jane Tan

Senior Global Quality Specialist at Booking.com

I feel inspired to write a review for Milagros after my enlightening & impactful career coaching sessions with her. I have come away from our sessions with valuable knowledge and self-awareness as a coach.
Now I understand better my own business coaching concept and where do I want to focus my future workshops.
Milagros is able to see the big picture and inspire, whilst simultaneously breaking down your goals and setting your game-plan into action. Her professional yet highly compassionate approach and determined attitude is truly one of a kind and I recommend her whole-heartedly.

Karolina Filosek

Karolina Filosek

Co-active coach at Will2flow

Milagros is an incredible coach. Her thought-through and empathic approach not only helped me identify my strengths and the core values I need to bear in mind when moving ahead with my career, but also shared a handful of tips how to significantly reinforce my interview preparation. But perhaps most importantly, she made me see my past achievements in a brand new light and helped me regain confidence. Highly recommend!

Barbora Burcakova

Barbora Burcakova

Program Manager at Medscape

I sought Milagros’ assistance as Career Coach during a particularly barren patch. I had been seeking a new role for a considerable length of time and had gone without even an interview for several weeks, despite dozens of applications.

Milagros helped me refocus and re-energise my job-searching efforts. Within a couple of months of starting our coaching relationship, I had two interviews – one of which led to a job offer!

Marcus Edwards

Marcus Edwards

IT Change Manager at Bunzl Continental Europe

Milagros is a great and passionate coach! As an international business student who is about to choose which direction I want to specialize in, I came to her in a moment of uncertainty about whether the path I am going for, is the right one for me. As an active listener, who shows you what is important to obey when making life changing decisions, she is doing a fantastic job.
Her masterclass helped me to see the crucial aspects, not only for myself but also with everyone else, of what to pay attention to when pursuing a new career path.

Natassia Panfilov

Natassia Panfilov

HR Leave Specialist at Nike

Via Empower Amsterdam I had the good fortune to have Milagros as my coach.
Looking for your next career move isn´t always easy and having someone asking important questions about yourself and your goals in life, helps you to focus and is key to success.
Milagros did not only help me to understand where I had to improve, but also helped me look forward and understand what it is that I want and how I can achieve those goals.
It was a pleasure to talk, discuss and think together with Milagros.
In the sessions that we had, Milagros was completely focused on helping me! More than a coach, Milagros was a mentor to me.

Antonio Duarte

Antonio Duarte

Director Business Development EMEA & APAC at OneStream

Milagros es una excelente profesional que irradia entusiasmo y optimismo con la que he tenido el placer de coincidir. De ella destaco su capacidad de saber escuchar y es una persona cercana, comprometida y comunicativa. Su interés e inquietud por su rama de trabajo y potencial para innovar la hacen volcarse completamente en ello. A la vez sabe desde el primer momento orientar, ofrece las herramientas adecuadas y consigue a través de sus sesiones que uno reflexione, crezca y logre los objetivos marcados. ¡Tratar con ella es siempre gratificante!

Marta Amat

Marta Amat

Global Senior Manager Commercial Policy and Pricing Strategy at Philips

‘I thought Milagros was great – very supportive, warm, genuinely helpful and really interested in me and my future. By working together, my sense of my own value increased, which has had a huge effect on my earning capacity and self-confidence. Milagros taught me to be confident through a sense of control. I’d highly recommend her as a coach! She was honestly brilliant.’

Tomek Mossakowski

Tomek Mossakowski

Social Media expert

‘I participated in a coaching program with Milagros that helped me better understand my values, strengths, and areas for improvement. Through practical exercises and her coaching, I was able to align my actions with my values, identify my strengths, and develop a personal growth plan. I highly recommend it to anyone looking to improve both personally and professionally.’

Maria Solorzano

Maria Solorzano

Quality Manager at eMagiz

Milagros is a great coach that I have opportunity to work with, as soon as I arrived to Amsterdam. She contributed to my career development and helped me to clarify some key strengths and values that helped to improve my job search process. She is a great professional with an structured methodology, empathetic and with positive energy that makes you enjoy the process. I would definitely recommend Milagros as a Coach that will make a positive impact in your career.

Aldo Bejarano

Aldo Bejarano

Business Development Manager at The Kraft Heinz Company

Great career coach, she really finds talents you weren’t aware of. Great help with personal growth and also professional advice for your resume and motivation letter. For a couple of months, I wasn’t successful in my job search but after a few sessions with Milagros, I eventually found work within 2/3 weeks! She makes your strong points shine!

Giorgio Melis

Giorgio Melis

Assistent-bedrijfsleider at ODIN FOODCOOP

YOUR LEADERSHIP EVOLUTION PATHWAY

One Journey. Four Entry Points

Every leader arrives at a different moment. Choose the starting point that reflects what you need today.

PERSPECTIVE

Step back and gain clarity before your next move.

DIAGNOSTIC

Understand what’s happening beneath the surface..

CLARITY

Make confident decisions when it matters most.

TRANSFORMATION

Evolve how you think, decide for your next level

Different moments call for different levels of support.

Where you begin shapes the clarity, growthand impact that follow

About Milagros

For over two decades, I’ve worked alongside senior leaders and international professionals in complex organisational environments, supporting them through growth, change, and increasing levels of responsibility.

Long before I became a mentor, I had a front-row seat to leadership in action. I saw how accomplished executives navigated complexity, made difficult decisions, influenced others, and carried the pressures that came with responsibility. Over time, I noticed something few leadership programmes address.

Success eventually creates challenges that experience alone can’t solve.

The qualities that once fuelled performance can gradually create pressure, reduce clarity, and limit leadership.

That insight shaped the work I do today.

I help leaders understand the operating system beneath their leadership, recognise the patterns it creates, and evolve how they think, decide, and lead—from the inside out.

Drawing on executive coaching, Jungian psychology, behavioural transformation, Neuro-Linguistic Programming (NLP), and extensive experience working across cultures, I create a private space where leaders can think clearly, challenge deeply held assumptions, and lead with greater clarity, confidence, and intention.

Grounded. Discreet. Practical. Transformation-focused.

Why The Milagros Group?

The Milagros Group is intentionally personal.

The work is led directly by me, because the depth, trust and discretion required in this work matter deeply to how I serve my clients.

The word “Group” reflects the bigger vision behind the business: creating a trusted ecosystem of expertise, perspectives and collaborations that can extend beyond my own work when that creates greater value for the leaders I serve.

I work with a select number of leaders personally, while bringing in trusted partners and complementary expertise when appropriate. One personal relationship at the centre.

A wider network of expertise around it.

Your Next Chapter Starts With One Conversation

Whether you’re navigating a complex decision, recognising that your current way of operating is becoming harder to sustain, or ready for deeper transformation, every meaningful shift begins with understanding how you operate today.

Confidential mentorship for accomplished leaders ready to evolve how they think, decide and lead.

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